Healthy Resource Manual: Word

Healthy Resource Manual: WARMTH

Health Assessment	Books & Written Resources	Free Downloads & Notes Requires Adobe Reader	Audio, Video & Other Resources
Level 1: Has an awareness of the importance of relationships, sees the need for intentionally developing such life changing connections, and is developing a hunger for such fellowship.	The Five Love Languages By Gary Chapman The Five Love Languages For Singles By Gary Chapman The Five Love Languages For Children By Gary Chapman	How Do I Evaluate My Own Relationships? (Warmth Assessment Questions)	Warmth: Staying Connected to the Body of Christ (Intro. message by Pastor Jim Folk) Isn’t Religion a Private Matter? Sermon on Acts 2:41-47 By Pastor Jim Folk (7-18-2004)
Level 2: Occasionally has involvement with others but usually at a more superficial level. May desire more but unsure of how to proceed	Communication-Key To Your Marriage By H. Norman Wright The DNA Of Relationships By Gary Smalley Connecting By Larry Crabb	Where Can I get Connected to others? (Places to plug in to relationships)	The Judgment of Charity Begins With Transforming the Pharisee in the Mirror Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (10-10-2004) The Judgment of Charity is a Tool for Our Pocket: Mining and Designing the Tool That Can Change Our Relationships Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (10-17-2004) The Judgment of Charity: Communication: Filters and Breakdowns Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (10-24-2004)
Level 3: Has regular life-on-life interactions with other Christians, enough so that any crisis in their life would not have to be met alone.	Boundaries By Henry Cloud & John Townsend The Search For Significance By Robert McGee		The Judgment of Charity: Speaking the Truth in Love: Communication: Motives & Methods, Conflict: Introduction to Styles Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (10-31-2004) The Judgment of Charity: Speaking the Truth in Love: Communication: Long-Term Effects of the Styles Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (11-7-2004) The Judgment of Charity: Conflict: Introduction to the Cycle of Conflict Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (11-14-2004)
Level 4: Initiates life-on-life relationships, seeing themselves as a “Life Guard” by looking for others who need a point of meaningful connection.	How People Grow By Henry Cloud Creating Community By Andy Stanley And Bill Willits		The Judgment of Charity: Love Your Enemies: Conflict: Introduction to the Tools of Resolution Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (11-21-2004) The Judgment of Charity: True Forgiveness: The Two Hands of Love Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (11-28-2004)
Level 5: Able to develop and enhance a culture of warmth by modeling it, teaching the principles behind it, praying for it, and encouraging it in others. Formally or informally mentors others along the spectrum of warmth.	How To Ask Great Questions By Karen Lee Thorp (A Resource For Small Group Leaders)		The Judgment of Charity: Overcome Evil with Good: When Forgiveness is Hard Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (12-5-2004) The Judgment of Charity: Restoring Our Judgment of Charity Sermon by Pastor Gary deBock (12-12-2004) Asking Questions in a Small Group (audio resource by Pastor Jim Folk)